We thought we would write a blog about the top things we get asked about wedding rings - we’re sure if many others have asked it may be information that is helpful to you too.

1) Which hand should i wear my wedding ring on?

Traditionally in the UK the wedding ring is worn on the ring finger (the one next to the little finger) on the left hand. It is said that the Romans believed that a main vein ran from this finger directly to the heart. This vein was called Vena Amoris, which translates to 'vein of love' because of the connection of love to the heart.

2) Which way around do I wear my wedding and engagement ring?

Traditionally in the UK the engagement ring is not worn during the wedding ceremony. Rather than not wearing it at all, many choose to move it from their left hand to their right keeping the left hand free for the ceremony. The wedding ring is placed on the left hand during the ceremony and then often the engagement ring is then moved back over to the left hand on top of the wedding ring. Traditionally in the UK this is then the way the wedding ring and engagement ring is worn however it is not the same around the world so really it is down to your own personal preference.

3) Does my partners ring have to match mine?

We often get asked if wedding rings need to be of the same metal or the same design. Again this is something that is down to personal preference and budget.

Different metals suit different skin tones. One of you may look really fantastic with a cool tones platinum ring but a red gold may work better for the other. The same goes for design. One of you may suit heavier chunky rings where as the other slim lightweight rings.

We often say as a compromise that it is nice to have a similarity between them. Our Molten wedding rings all have a unique texture which coordinates all the rings in the collection - no matter what weight or metal choice you go for.

Another way of coordinating your rings is by having engraving inside - a special message or the date of your wedding day.

4) my partner doesn’t want a ring - do they have to?

We often hear people say that their partner does not want to wear a ring as they are not used to wearing jewellery or that they work with their hands and worry it will get ruined so they do not want one. It is perfectly fine not to have a wedding ring - there is no rule that you have to have one.

The wedding ring is meant as a symbol of the commitment you give to each other. During the ceremony your partner will give you the ring and put it on your finger as a symbol of their commitment to you - meaning that the ring you wear is a symbol of the commitment your partner is showing you rather than a reminder of your commitment.

We personally believe there is a ring for everyone. If you are very practical or have a manual job it is important to select the right metal type for your ring. Scratches and dents become part of its story and are a record of your time together.

In regard to not being used to wearing jewellery - we offer the opportunity to order a sample ring that you can try before you buy one in gold or platinum. This is a great opportunity try wearing a ring and see how you get on with it. We find you quickly get used to it and will find you miss it once you take it off!

5) Does my wedding ring have to be the same thickness & depth as my engagement ring?

We personally feel that if you are wearing your wedding ring with another ring then it is best if they match in depth. If there is quite a difference between them as you run your ringer over them you will feel a ridge.

When it comes to width then really it is down to preference. Some people want a wedding band to match their engagement ring, some like it to be thinner to showcase the engagement ring, others like wider to make the wedding ring more obvious.

We would recommend the following combinations from our collection: